Wednesday, December 26, 2018

HodgePodge + Thanksgiving Post!

How did I never post about Thanksgiving! I have SO much catching up to do on this blog!!! So I guess I better get right to it...
Halloween never really ended around here...!

Ryder pulls awesome faces
The kids put on a play for me that involved Ryder being a dragon, Colton being a zombie, and Camille putting up with their shenanigans!

These three are weird.  And messy!

One morning the sun was shining through the frost at the top of Carter Mountain


For Thanksgiving, we drove up to southern Ohio to spend the weekend with Rachael and her family!  They moved to Marietta in the summer and have been LOVING the change after spending 7 years in Harlem.  (Rachael bought herself a mini-van and enjoys large, spacious parking lots!  She also enjoys NOT having shootings in her neighborhood!)  We were excited to see the house they're renting and get a quick tour of the town, which is very cute.  And, as always, we mostly just enjoy hanging out a lot!
Colton and Nolan playing together

Harrison is just so cute!

As always, Bentley claimed a drumstick!
As we were about to leave, we realized we needed at least one group picture to prove we were there!  And it actually turned out pretty good!

UVA Messiah Sing-In

I've documented it pretty well here just how much I love attending the Messiah Sing-Along at the Kennedy Center each Christmas.  This year we have a TON of family coming for Christmas, which I am BEYOND excited about.  We also have Ryder's baptism on the 23rd (which is a big part of why so much family will gathering here)(that's also the day of the Kennedy Sing-Along).  So I really can't do both.

So it was time to try something new: the Sing-In at UVA's Old Cabell Hall!

This was the 51st year doing this, and the first year that my choir director would be conducting the Sing-In (in the past he's played the harpsichord!), so that made it a little more fun for me.  Also fun, I was able to sit with my friend from choir, so I was singing along with someone I usually sing with!  Craig was a little nervous, because they seat everyone by their part, so he couldn't sit with me like we usually do.  (There is no choir in the world in which basses sit next to sopranos.)  But he lucked out and was sitting behind five of the basses from my choir (who all performed Messiah two years ago, right before I joined!), and even he admitted that it was a lot easier singing his part with all them so close.

This was very different from the Kennedy Center one-- the orchestra was made up of volunteers who just showed up that day along with all the singers, so they were a little rough.  And there was no professional choir to pull everyone along: we all would either sink or swim together!  And unlike the Kennedy Center, this felt a little more like a rehearsal.  Michael wasn't afraid to stop us and make us try something again.  (He once corrected the sound we were making and then on our second try exclaimed, "That was a lovely sound!  Now imagine how great it would sound if you sang with beautiful rhythm, too!"  Such a Michael thing to say!)

But it was still SO MUCH FUN!  I thoroughly enjoyed myself, and even though we had to pay for tickets, that was still cheaper than parking at the Kennedy Center, and it only took a couple hours total, rather than taking the entire day.  So that was a win!

Just to make it even more of a date night, Craig and I left early and stopped at Panera for dinner and hot chocolate.  We spent the whole time there on our phones shopping Amazon and got all our Christmas shopping done.  It was a GREAT way to spend an evening!
There's a very blurry photo of us at Old Cabell Hall!



The hardest thing now will be deciding which one we do next year!

Sunday, December 2, 2018

Parental Pride. Sort of.

Recently Colton loves to sing the Hallelujah Chorus.  This thrills me no end.

Unfortunately, he thinks it's from Captain Underpants.

Oh, well.


On a related note, my sister Leah (whose sons are 8 and 3) found out that Dav Pilke, the man we have to thank for Captain Underpants, lives on Bainbridge Island!  Who knew?

Camille Quote

Today in church Camille turned to me and asked, "Does Jesus love everyone?" and of course I told her Yes.  And then, very loudly, she said, "He loves me because I'm so cute!"

That is one confident little girl we're raising!

Monday, November 26, 2018

Car History

When I finished my undergrad degree, my parents gave me the option for my graduation gift of either keeping the car they were letting me use, or they said they could buy me a laptop.  I already had a (crappy) computer and access to computer labs on campus, and couldn't imagine going back to not having a car, so the choice was an easy one.  So it was that in 2003, I became the proud owner of a 1991 Honda Civic (and a bachelor's degree in English!).  It basically looked like this (but with a tiny blue stripe all around it and a sun roof):

Image result for white honda civic 1991

And I loved my car.  It was my baby.

When Craig and I got married, he had a car, too, so we towed the Honda and drove his car (and a tiny U-Haul van) across the country.  That drive pretty much finished off his Oldsmobile, and we quickly replaced it with our mini-van, and suddenly the Honda was Craig's car to drive, and I drove the mini-van.  And that worked just great for me, but it was a little rough for Craig.  Because, even though my Honda was a great car, it most certainly did NOT have air conditioning.  Because you don't really NEED A/C in Seattle, where we'd originally bought the car so many years ago!  Not like in Virginia.  Craig never complained about that, but it couldn't have been fun.

But we he managed.

Then, the day after I brought Kendra home from the hospital, Craig's parents called us with an idea.  They were purchasing a new car and would be trading in their old Saturn.  They asked if we would like to switch cars with them, we could keep the Saturn and they would trade in my Honda.

The advantage to this was pretty obvious: the Saturn was a few years newer (a '95 to my '91) and IT HAD AIR CONDITIONING.  There wasn't really any comparison.

Still, it killed me.  I'd just had a new baby and did NOT want to be making hard decisions just yet.  And besides, the Honda was MINE.  IT was my baby!  But now I had two babies to be taking care of and Craig needed something to get him to and from work that preferably wouldn't leave him drenched in sweat.  We said Yes to the trade.

We took the Honda for one last spin.  I no longer drove it very often, and when I slid behind the wheel, I didn't notice that Craig had left it parked in 1st gear (rather than reverse, like I would have done) and I promptly rammed it straight into the parking curb.  Craig looked at me and asked, "Are you sure you're okay with this?"  I nodded, admitted that was just a dumb mistake, not me trying to sabotage things.  And that was the last of my Honda!

The Saturn, I should explain, was a teensy bit of a pain.  It was the most stripped down model that Saturn made: no power locks, no power windows, no power steering.  Nothing.  Only that lovely, cool air conditioning.  But since I hardly ever drove it, that really wasn't my problem.

We worried it wouldn't last long.  Hondas have a reputation for longevity, but I don't know if the same can be said of Saturns.  We told ourselves that if it made it 6 months without any major repairs we would assume that we'd made the best choices.

But it turned out to have been an excellent choice, because that car lasted.  It lasted and lasted.  Occasionally it needed some repairs.  I seem to recall some expensive transmission work while we were in Manassas.  But for the most part, it was extremely forgiving.  The kids, literally, tore it to shreds.  Pieces of the ceiling would hang down.  When we gave rides to the neighborhood children, they were amazed to learn how to "roll down" a window with a crank.  It got so old that Craig's co-workers would tease him about it.  But it still it ran for us.

But finally this year, it was time.  The poor car was leaking oil AND coolant.  We took it to our (much loved) mechanic and he said it needed a new radiator.  And since the company Saturn ceased to exist, it was getting harder to find parts.  We'd had that car for nearly 11 years (easy to keep track of, since it's the same as Kendra's age!)  And we just decided that it. was. time.

Craig had been searching on all the car apps for what he felt would be a good, reliable replacement car and when he found a good one at a price he liked AND had a day off, he jumped on it.

So we no longer have a 1995 Saturn.

We've come full circle and are the proud owners of a 2015 Honda Civic.

Goodbye Saturn, hello Honda!


Craig loves his new car.  He loves having power windows and power steering and power locks.  He loves that it's a bit zippier than his old car.  And it makes me happy to see him so happy.  (And I love driving it when I'm running errands without the kids!)  Life is good

And just because it made me smile, the other day I found an Oldsmobile, just like the one Craig took me out on our first date in, parked next to my huge van.  So I had to snap a picture of it.

It's like they're old, curmudgeonly friends together!

Friday, November 9, 2018

Autumn in Virginia

We've had an unusually rainy fall here, but in between cloudbursts and hurricane warnings, there have been some truly beautiful days, too! 

We signed Ryder up for soccer, but it's been canceled more often than not.  I wish we could get a refund on that, actually...  Even just fifty percent, since that's how many of the games have happened?
Yes, I'm too cheap to order the actual picture.  See Ryder in the front row on the right?

Ryder also had a class field trip.  I didn't go (since they won't let me bring Camille along), but I'm friends with one of the parents (who is also the soccer coach) who went, so I got these great pictures!

Ryder and his buddy Owen

Yay for Skyline Drive!

Who doesn't love a bus full of second-graders?
Also, Ryder is weird.

Colton also had a field trip that I didn't go on (but I'm friends with his teacher, too-- I'm telling you, it pays to be friends with people!).
On the hayride with Joseph and Walter

Also, Craig started building a tree house with the kids.  We were going to put it off for a bit until we had more time and money, but then we realized that we would NEVER have enough time and money, but the kids won't think this is fun and cool for much longer.  So why wait?

The main support beams




Our whole backyard is sloped, so one end of the treehouse is only about five or six feet up, but the other side is ten feet up!

There's Ryder helping Craig

And Kendra!

Colton drew this the following Monday-- I don't think anything could have pleased Craig more!

 And of course, we've been raking leaves...

Oh, how I love this picture!

And this one!

Totally buried!

I love sunlight shining through trees, and I love the view from my kitchen

This picture needs an explanation...  I've been continuing to exercise (clocked over 2,000 minutes on my Nike app!) and last Saturday, Bentley was working out with me, and then all the little kids decided to join us while we did mountain climbers.  They worked up a sweat and peeled off their sleeper pajamas, and then proceeded to exercise in their underwear.  I looked around and thought, "That got weird fast."  Craig got the receipts.
Doing squats.  In our underwear.
Ryder named that red tree "Shockey," I have no idea why.  I normally don't think too much about it, but it sure is lovely right now.  And with that shock of color, I guess it is aptly named as well!


Happy Autumn!

Halloween!

I was talking to another mom the other day and she summed it up perfectly: "When did Halloween become more stressful than Thanksgiving???"  Between trying to figure out costumes for all five kids and buying SO MUCH candy and carving pumpkins (and we only did one this year!) and all the parties...  Halloween wears me out.  My kids had fun and we all had a good time, but I'm relieved that it's over.  But without further ado, here are pictures from all the festivities...

First of all....  the carving!  We couldn't figure out a time when we'd all be together to do it, so Craig missed out.  That meant it was up to me to document it for him!
I like that Kendra put on her witch hat for the occasion!

Oh, Ryder...





Ryder wanted to be a zombie, and then that turned into a zombie cub scout.  Craig did an AWESOME job with his makeup, don't you think?  (My personal favorite is that crater in his forehead.)

Quinn very generously brought vampire teeth to share with Camille!

And Theo tried (unsuccessfully) to use them, too!

I didn't take any pictures at our church party, but this is from the neighborhood party the next day!  (We picked up an extra kid, Bentley's friend from our congregation who lives out in the middle of nowhere, and so enjoys getting to trick-or-treat in our neighborhood!)




They didn't do so well with the mummy wrapping contest, but Bentley did go on to win a container full of candy corns when he guessed within three how many were in it!




Notice here: a) Camille is trying not to cry; b) Ryder is staying in Zombie character (he won "scariest") c) Colton is ALSO very much in character; d) Bentley is supposed to be a bank robber, not anti-fa!
There's Camille running ahead!

Craig was busy running the haunted house and doing Ryder's makeup at our church party, which was held Tuesday night.  I didn't really see him the whole evening.  So I figured he could take kids trick-or-treating for the actual night and I could stay home and give out candy (and, of course, read my book in between doorbell rings), so that was great.

We survived another Halloween-- phew!!!