Monday, June 16, 2025

End of the School Year and Other Miscellaneous Stuff

I was out walking one morning and caught the most beautiful sunrise!  Then I bumped into Craig and he'd gotten an even better picture of it!

Here's Craig's

And mine
It's always nice when the universe rewards you for doing the hard thing!

One of my former Young Women, Ella, went through the temple and invited me to come with her, which meant a great deal to me!  I was kind of surprised when I sat down with her and her mom (Abby, who has become a dear friend as we've worked together in church!) and realized I was the only other person from the ward they'd invited!  I felt really special to get to be there and be a part of her big day!

Temple selfie!
Camille's class had their awards ceremony, so Bentley and I went to cheer her on.  I just love the teachers she had this year, and I thought this was all very sweet:

(I also thought it was sweet that Bentley came along!)  Here's Camille with her bff, Mara!
"Excellence with Integrity" and "Natural Connector"-- two awesome kids!
There was a youth temple trip, but I had a choir thing and couldn't go, which was a bummer.  It sounded like it was a great evening for everyone!
Marianne, Jadyn, Kendra, Violet, Lydia, and Ella.  Love the rainbow behind them!
Craig and I spent a Saturday morning sitting on our lawn chatting.  Colton took that time to build himself a fake fire and roast fake s'mores.  Kids are so fun!
And then as I was driving that night, I realized there was a very pretty sunset going on!  I managed to snap a picture as I drove over the interstate where I could see it better.  I'm such a safe driver...  But considering I took this from a moving vehicle and without actually looking, they turned out pretty good!

The next Tuesday our YW/YM combined activity was the Cardboard Regatta!  It's the most ridiculous thing-- the kids make boats out of huge cardboard boxes and then paddle around in them and it actually works!!!  Honestly, I couldn't believe it until I'd actually seen it.  How nutty is this???

First we put everyone onto teams and they had to get building!



Then, once they'd posed for photos, they had to haul their boats down to the pond for the big competition!

Julia, Violet, Ember, Jadyn, Daniel, Jason, and Julia.  I love that the three Woolstenhulmes all ended up on a team together!

As did the four Smith kids!  (Colton, Kendra, Steven, Ryder, Bentley, and Topher)

Eli, Truman, Calvin, William, and Marianne

Cedric, Gideon, Sawyer, Maisy, McKinley, and Luci
Craig had two boats compete against each other at a time, everyone trying to race around the dock in the middle of the pond.  And Scott was out paddling around in a canoe in case anyone needed rescuing.  Camille was also out kayaking around just because it makes her happy!



This one was a cool idea, but it did not work.  At all...  Eli stayed in there as the boat kept sinking, making everyone nervous that he was going to go down with it (which was why Scott kept hovering nearby!)

But this boat did pretty well!  That's Colton and Ryder trying to row it together!  The scripture reference on their boat is Matthew 14:30, "But when he saw the wind boisterous, he was afraid; and beginning to sink, he cried, saying, Lord, save me"-- very apropos!

Success!
Eli finally emerges from his own personal shipwreck...  (Also, you can see a bunch of the girls who opted to swim around and jump off the dock after they'd competed)

All the remaining "boats" and floatation devices...

Another success!
Then round 2 was a demolition derby round between the two winners, where they were still racing to paddle around the dock, but this time they were allowed to try and sabotage each other.  Imagine my surprise when Kendra went full-on Beast Mode, launching herself onto the other boat, and ripping it apart with her bare hands!  The girl is savage!!!  

Love the random floating Croc...!
Camille, meanwhile, in her happy place

McKinley sinking the other boat
The other team of course retaliated and everyone's boats were sunk!  The kids dragged the cardboard out of the pond so at least we wouldn't be polluting, and then they headed back to the house where Tony was ready with apple cobbler and ice cream for everyone.  It was such a fun night.  I love stuff like this so much!

Just two days later was Ryder's 8th grade Walk Through, which they do instead of a graduation.  Basically, the teachers all line up along the hallway and cheer as the rising 9th graders walk through the hall for their final time (except, not really, because they still had a half-day of school left).  It's kind of silly, but I prefer it to all the boringness of trying to pretend that the kids are "graduating" in any meaningful way from middle school.
There he is with us following behind

Shaking Mr. Walton's hand (have I said before how much I LOVE that the principal of Walton Middle School is named Mr. Walton???)
We figured that was a good time to present him with the thing he's been wishing for for so many years now....



Yup, Ryder finally has a phone!  Now he can be a screenager just like his older siblings!


Yay, Ryder!
And then the next day was the last day of school!  Another year done!  The kids all had half days and I managed to be home (or in the case of Kendra, pick her up) on time for that.  Always a win, when I can make that work!  And Craig picked up pizza on his way home which we were all excited to eat at the pool, but then of course it started raining and thundering.  So we finished watching Willow (which is a weird movie, quite frankly-- very much LOTR Lite) and ate our pizza at home, and by the time the movie was done, the weather had cleared up and we managed to get some pool time in after all.

Welcome, summer!  We've been waiting for you!

Wednesday, June 4, 2025

Kendra's Photo Shoot

Kendra and her friend decided to go to the Blue Ridge Tunnel and take a bunch of photos of Kendra.  And, not to be all braggy about my daughter, but they turned out kind of amazing?  I'm not going to share all of them here...  Just most of them!

That tunnel really does make for some dramatic pics!



Kendra has this weird love for moss (a love which I share!), so I really love how vibrant and green the moss makes this picture!

Those earrings are a win



This girl could kill you with her bare hands

Oh, but wait, except she's totally silly and cute!




Then she changed into her prom dress for a different (but still kinda minty!) look:






Seriously, how is Kendra so pretty???

Tuesday, June 3, 2025

Up to Memorial Day

Guess who's busy?

WE'RE BUSY!  This is our last week of school and let me tell you, we are barely limping across the finish line of this school year.  I was sort of thinking that we could relax a bit once summer started, until I realized that Craig and I leave on Wednesday to drive kids to youth conference up in Palmyra, NY.  (Yup, the stake decided to copy what Craig did with our youth last summer!)  And the week after that he's taking the Young Men on high adventure, and the week after that, I do the same with the Young Women...  The carousel never stops.  But here are some of the things that we've been up to recently...

Craig and I made it to the temple, and caught this very pretty sunset after!


I once again tried to plan a YWs campout only for it to get rained out and resort to having a slumber party at my house!  History does, indeed, repeat itself!  I just never think that May should be so rainy!  (Sidenote: my friend Megan wore a shirt the other day that made me laugh.  It said, "Don't make me repeat myself! ~History")

Anyway, the girls made red velvet s'more brownies (totally camp adjacent!) and then watched Once I Was a Beehive, which is the rare church movie that I just really like and appreciate.  And then I sent them to bed in the basement and left them alone.  Apparently they stayed up until 4:40am, but Kendra assured me it was all really good talks that she felt helped everyone.  So, I guess that's a win?
Getting ready for the movie!  Lily, Kendra, Jadyn, and Violet; Lilyann, Ember, and McKinley all managed to arrive later, so we had a pretty good turnout by the end!
The next morning, I got up early and headed to Richmond-- I got to attend a regional training meeting with Elder Stevenson!  He even shook everyone's hand before it began!  So that was very cool.  (He actually shook with his left hand because his right hand was injured; I suspect the injury is from shaking so many people's hands, the poor guy...)  While I was there, Missy, Wendy and Anita came back to my house and made breakfast for the (very tired) girls, and then took them to the Snow's farm, where they made Meals in a Jar, which will be their dinner the first night of YWs camp.  I'm glad my people were all willing to step up like that!

I came home from the training and had just enough time to eat and then we headed back out again, this time driving a van full of youth to a fireside with Elder Stevenson (where he shook all their hands, too!).  In the interest of saving space, the grown ups were not invited to attend, so Craig and I headed to a nearby Panda Express and hung out with some of the other parents, which was pretty fun, too!  We got home late and were all properly exhausted.  But it was a really great weekend!  (Just for the record, this was the SAME weekend that we got Charlie!  But I figured he deserved his own post!)

That was all on Friday and Saturday.  On Sunday, Kendra had her final band concert and end of year banquet.  We tried to get pictures of her, but they ended up like this:
Oh, can you find Kendra?
Let me help you out:
Her face is in that circle, right behind Mr. Strickler's clapping hands.  Now, why couldn't you find her?
And here's another great shot:
Sigh.
In other, totally unrelated news, Adam sent me this gorgeous shot of the DC temple that he took:
It's too pretty to not share with you, too!

And walking home from the bus stop, I had to admire the sun coming through the trees.  It had been very foggy that morning (this was the coldest May I have ever experienced in Virginia!), and as it lifted, it made everything very dreamy!
And here's Carter Mountain trying to hide in the fog!

I tried to French braid Camille's hair for the first time ever (I mean, this was my first attempt at French braiding anyone's hair, not just Camille's!).  The results were mixed:

My first braid is a weird mix of French and Dutch style.  So I was a little off, but honestly, I don't think it looks terrible...

The lighting is worse on this side, but my second braid I managed to actually do French style on both halves of the braid, but it got all messed up in there.  I actually think it looks worse.  Ah, well!  Some day I'll try again... 
I dragged Bentley along to the temple with me by promising we could go to Target after.  I'm not above a little bribery!

That's a terrible picture of me, but I was trying to get the Angel Moroni in the shot!
We spent a week off our screens.  Trust me, the kids were NOT happy about this idea, but it actually went very well.  I read a LOT more than I usually do, so that was nice for me.  And I actually played chess with Ryder, which I am always putting off doing.  So that was fun (even if he did beat me).  And, it was nice seeing my kids reading more instead of just scrolling on their phones or texting their friends.  When we called for someone, they actually heard us because they didn't have noise-cancelling headphones in their ears!  Amazing!  I also felt like I got a lot more done in the evenings since I wasn't sitting around watching The Office with Bentley and Ryder.  Although I do love watching old shows with my kids, so I don't mean that in a disparaging way!  But it is nice to get a little more done at times, too!
Craig thought it was hilarious that we were holding the exact same pose as we played!
After our week was up, we did a pirate-themed escape room as a family to celebrate (it seemed fitting to do a non-screen thing for this, right?) and that was a lot of fun, even if it was very difficult finding a time when everyone could make it!
I hate the face I'm pulling here, but whatever.  Everyone else looks cute!  (I like Kendra's "It was all me" sign because she was SUPER good at solving the puzzles!  That was the fastest I've ever finished a room, and I think it was all thanks to her!)
During that time, it occurred that I have never ever cleaned my oven.  And I've lived here for ten years now.  I didn't actually know how to do this seemingly impossible task.  At BYU they used to make us clean our ovens, but we just turned on the self-cleaning thing and it made our whole apartment reek.  Also, we always forgot to take the racks out beforehand, and they always ended up damaged and rough, it was so sad.  But having the YW over and realizing that they might see the inside of my oven embarrassed me enough that I thought it was probably time to figure this one out.  A quick google search assured me that this wasn't actually all that hard, you just needed oven cleaner and a lot of elbow grease.  

So on a really fun Friday night, I had Craig take the door off the oven so we could vacuum out all the burned up charcoaly crumbs in there (there have been at least two incidences where cookies rolled off the cookie sheet 😬), then he put the door back on and we sprayed the crap out of it and left it overnight.

In the morning, he removed the door again and I got to work scrubbing.  Most of the grease came off pretty easily-- it was kind of amazing.  And I spent a good couple hours scrubbing away before suddenly I was just done.  At that point, I needed to take Colton and Camille to a friend's house (who lives 30 minutes away), so I showered and got them there.  And when I got home, Craig had finished the scrubbing for me!  He'd managed to get off almost all the really tough spots that I'd failed at, and he'd finished the door and put it back on!  The oven looked brilliant!!!

I really should have taken a before picture, but it was just too embarrassing
Shortly after that, I took a nap, and when I got up from my nap, Craig had done the dishes!!!  I teased him that he was going to teach me all the wrong lessons if every time I left him in the kitchen, I came back to find it cleaner!  

Anyway, I picked Colton and Camille up later-- around 9pm I think?-- and the farm still had a bit of daylight left, so I managed to snap this picture:
I am way too lazy to live on a farm, but when I see sights like this, I do get a bit wistful...

We didn't have much going on that Sunday (a nice change of pace!) so Kendra baked cookies for some of the YW who hadn't been at church that morning, and we also visited Akston's grave, something I'd been meaning to do for a while.  And then that evening we enjoyed having a fire out on the deck.

For Memorial Day, we wanted to give the kids something fun to do that didn't involve their screens (since this was still during our break), so we took a few of them kayaking.  We were borrowing Adam's kayaks but it was taking us a while to get them loaded and the kids were starting to fight with each other, so I suggested they go look at Adam's chickens (he was driving up to Syracuse, otherwise he would have come along with us!).  So the kids were very surprised when they heard Adam's voice saying Hi to them!  We'd forgotten that he has a webcam in the coop that alerts him if something big comes inside, so the kids had set it off!  I think Adam was very relieved it wasn't a bear disturbing his chickens!  Anyway, that was funny.  And the kayaking was delightful, if a touch cold.  



I took a turn, too, but mostly I sat and read my book and let everyone else have a turn.  And that was pretty great, too!